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How Davido, Chioma secretly got married after Son’s death

Some facts have emerged, revealing how award-winning Afrobeats singer, David Adeleke, better known as Davido, secretly wedded his long time lover, Chioma Avril Rowland, a.k.a Chef Chi, five days after the death of their son.

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According to Saturday Sun, the ace singer paid Chioma’s customary bride price on Friday, November 4, 2022 in a quiet traditional marriage ceremony in Lagos.

The newspaper reported that the final marriage rites were concluded in Chioma’s hometown in Imo State on Monday January 2, 2023.

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Chioma’s kinsmen from Ezeala Odu, Owerre Nkwoji, in Nkwerre Local Government Area of Imo State, had reportedly hosted Davido’s family, the Adelekes, at Chioma’s family house in Lekki, Lagos, where the traditional marriage took place on Friday, November 4, 2022.

An eyewitness of the wedding reportedly said the sudden death of Ifeanyi, the three-year-old son Davido had with Chioma out of wedlock, had sparked-off anger among Chioma’s kinsmen which snowballed into the emergency secret marriage.

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A source close to Chioma’s family anonymously disclosed that Davido had concluded plans for a lavish traditional marriage at Chioma’s town in December 2022, to be followed by a society wedding ceremony this year.

But the sudden death of Ifeanyi, who drowned in Davido’s swimming pool at his Banana Island residence, changed the plan and elicited anger among Chioma’s kinsmen.

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Saturday Sun reported that upon learning that Ifeanyi was to be buried on Saturday, November 5, 2022, Chioma’s kinsmen quickly summoned an emergency meeting in which they resolved to stop the burial on the grounds that Ifeanyi was their son since Chioma was not legitimately married to Davido, according to Igbo tradition, before the boy’s death.

Narrating the entire episode, the newspaper’s source said: “When we heard that Ifeanyi was to be buried on that Saturday, my kinsmen quickly convened an emergency meeting here in Lagos. The President General of my town’s union flew in from Port Harcourt, Rivers State, for the meeting and was in Lagos the whole of that week. We felt embarrassed and disrespected that our son was going to be buried by strangers. Chioma was not traditionally married to Davido. Traditionally, Ifeanyi was a son of Owerre Nkwoji because in Igbo custom, a concubine cannot lay claim to a child when he has not paid the child’s mother’s dowry.

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“We had been angry that our daughter, Chioma, got pregnant with Davido without being legally married to him. Several times, Davido had promised to pay her dowry in a most colourful traditional marriage ceremony, all to no avail. It is an embarrassment that our daughter had a son for him out of wedlock. And then, he wanted to bury our son when he did not marry his mother according to our customs. We said we would not allow that to happen.

“So at the emergency meeting, we summoned Chioma’s father (Mr. Rowland Ejiofor) and asked him to go and tell the Adelekes to come and pay Chioma’s dowry before or by Friday, November 4, 2022, if they must bury Ifeanyi on Saturday, November 5, 2022, as their son, otherwise they should release his dead body to us for burial as our son.

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“Since we had no direct dealings with the Adelekes, pressure was on Chioma’s father who is our kinsman, whose daughter was putting our community on the global stage for the wrong reasons. We urged him to convey our message to the Adelekes and then understand that failure to cooperate with us by granting our requests may attract grave consequences to the Adelekes and Chioma’s father.

“We warned Chioma’s father that should Ifeanyi be buried by the Adelekes without paying Chioma’s dowry, we would banish him (Chioma’s father) and his family from our community and order the youths to raze his compound in the village after which we would address a world press on the incident, which would be a bad publicity for the famous Adelekes, especially for Davido’s musical career.”

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The source further disclosed that his kinsmen reminded the Adelekes that they were not interested in their wealth, stressing that all they wanted was to restore their dignity as a people. To make it convenient for the Adelekes, rather than insist on the event being held in Chioma’s home town, Owerre Nkwoji, Imo State, it was scheduled for her family house in Lagos, a property she bought when her relationship with Davido got murky.

He said: “We told the Adelekes that we are not interested in their money. By our customs and tradition, all we needed was about N30,000.00 in lieu of some items that needed to be bought for the traditional marriage and just N1,000.00 which is the actual payment of the dowry.”

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Both Chioma’s father and the Adelekes were said to have accepted the position of Chioma’s kinsmen, in order to avoid further scandals to both families. The Adelekes were said to have fixed Friday, November 4, 2022 for the traditional marriage and requested that it be kept top secret from the public. The Adelekes also requested that both parties be represented by six people each. Most importantly, they pleaded that Davido and Chioma be excused from the ceremony and be allowed to mourn their late son. These were after Davido’s father, Mr. Adedeji Adekeke, was said to have extracted his son’s commitment to the marriage.

“We were already at Chioma’s family house here in Lagos on Friday November , when, about 3pm, the whole area was cordoned off by security operatives. I counted about six Hilux vans. Leading the delegation were Davido’s father and his brother, the Osun State governor, then the governor-elect.

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“Before the event started, they requested that both parties select six representatives for easier and more effective negotiations. The Adelekes are a wonderful family, very respectful and godly, especially Davido’s father. He apologised for the delay in the traditional marriage between Davido and Chioma and regretted the death of Ifeanyi. He spoke glowingly about Chioma.

“The biggest surprise was how the Osun State Governor, Isiaka Adeleke (then governor-elect), spoke fluently in Igbo language. He’s such an amiable fellow. Although we maintained that we were not interested in their money and insisted on taking only N30,000 for items on the list of traditional marriage rites of our community and N1,000 as the main dowry, the Adelekes brought loads of items, including food and fruits and cash of N5 million.

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“We did not accept the N5 million cash, but we all ate bananas and the other fruits they brought and had a wonderful time together,” the source recalled.

The source further revealed that the traditional marriage rites were rounded off at Ezeala Odu village, Owerre Nkwoji, Imo State, Chioma’s village in Ezeala Odu, on Monday, January 2, 2023, when Chioma’s kinsmen were officially presented with various items and cash in lieu of the dowry brought by the Adelekes in Lagos.

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Meanwhile, following Ifeanyi’s death, Davido’s father has ruled out a lavish society wedding as was proposed by his son this year. Instead, he said he would arrange for a private wedding that would be attended by a few guests in Atlanta, United Sates, after the couple had finished mourning their late son.

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JUST IN; Obasa claims Meranda resigns as Lagos State Assembly Speaker

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JUST IN; Obasa claims Meranda resigns as Lagos State Assembly Speaker

Sacked Lagos State House of Assembly Speaker, Mudashiru Obasa, on Thursday claimed that his successor, Mojisola Meranda, had resigned as leader of the parliament.

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Obasa made this assertion during an interview on Channels Television’s programme, Politics Today.

The lawmaker alleged that Meranda resigned during a peace meeting held at the Lagos House in Marina last weekend.

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According to him: “At the meeting held in Marina, which was attended by all party leaders, it was made clear—hopefully in the presence of all members—that Meranda herself announced her resignation. She stated that she had stepped down.

“Now, when someone resigns from office, the associated paraphernalia is taken away. So, the question arises: Have you also resigned? Because we understand that part of the arrangement was for you to step down as well.

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“Let them present the resignation letter. And if I were to resign, would I still be here? I’m sure you would still address me as Speaker, even though we’ve never had a conversation before.”

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BREAKING; Police restore Spraker Meranda’s security detail, explain withdrawal

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BREAKING; Police restore Spraker Meranda’s security detail, explain withdrawal

The Lagos Commissioner of Police (CP) Olohundare Moshood Jimoh has confirmed that the earlier withdrawal of police protection from Lagos Speaker Mojisola Meranda was as a result of personnel audit, dismissing insinuations that the withdrawal was politically motivated.

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CP Jimoh made this clarification at a briefing, reiterating that there was an ongoing personnel and arms audit by the police across the country.

The security detail of Merand at her residence and escorts withdrew Thursday morning causing controversy.

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Her detail were withdrawn just as those of former speaker, Mudashiru Obasa were reinstated and followed him to the House of the Assembly complex.

According to CP Jimoh, Obasa wrote to the police alleging threat to his life and requested armed protection.

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He reemphasised that the police have maintained neutrality and stayed out of politics in the Assembly leadership issue, urging the public not to drag the service into political matters.

“There is an ongoing Police Personnel Audit of our personnel attached to eminent personalities, individuals and groups, and their legal states.

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“This is a statutory laid down procedure, which is not limited to Lagos State. The same practice is going on in various commands across the country without any issues. This is to ensure that the police personnel are accounted for, including their firearms and other crime fighting equipment in their possession.

“We are doing this to ensure that they are on their duty post and that their firearms and equipment under their custody is not misused.

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“This exercise will equally avail the command the opportunity to discover where police personnel are posted without approval, and those that are on illegal duties and unapproved duty posts, so that we can withdraw those on unapproved duty posts, illegal duty and invalid approvals, and redeploy them on duty to police posts, police stations, police divisions and area commands to provide security and safety for all residents and visitors,” he said.

The police chief explained that with less than 18,000 police strength to secure more than 20 million people, there was need for more personnel to be at police posts, stations, divisions and the command for the safety and adequate protection of life and property of all the people of the state.

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“The ongoing police personnel audit is done in public interest and not with any consideration except for the safety of all in the state.

“As we speak, the audit of the police personnel attached to Hon. Mojisola Meranda has been completed and the form-armed police personnel attached to her from the State Police Command have been returned back to her for her protection.

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“It is pertinent to state that the ongoing police personnel audit has been on for several days now, and prominent personalities and individuals have been complying with the process. The exercise, once again, is not aimed or targeted at any individuals.

“For prominent personalities or business executives that have no valid approval, or having policemen that are with them under unapproved beats, they are implored to revalidate their approval for those with invalid approval, or apply afresh to the Inspector General of Police for their request to be approved without any delay.

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“However, for those whose police personnel are still undergoing the audit process with us, the outcome of the audit will enable the next line of action to be taken by them. I want to send a note of warning that any prominent persons or individuals without approval for police deployment to them, their personnel will be withdrawn throughout the state.

“The Special Protection Unit Department at the Force Headquarters have been mandated to provide security coverage for every Nigerian needing police protection in the country, and will henceforth provide deployment of police personnel for guard duties and personal protection will be centrally done throughout the country.

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“In the ongoing personnel audit of some personalities in Lagos, approval for their police personnel attached to them cannot be traced and verified, but they can still apply to the Inspector General of Police for the approval of their request and application of their police need.

“This will be treated on merit as stipulated in the Police Regulations of Guards and Protection of VIPs, Non-VIPs, and other individuals,” he stressed.

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On Obasa, the CP said: “There was application from Hon. Mudashiru Obasa on threats to his life and that of his family in the last few days. It was on the basis of that application that police personnel were approved to him for that purpose only.

“The Lagos State Police Command is not aware or in the know of how and where the office of the Speaker of the Lagos State Assembly was broken into. The Lagos State Police Command is neutral in the whole episode and will continue to do so to ensure law and order and public safety and security throughout the length and breadth of Lagos State.

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“This, we will not be tired of doing at the Lagos State Police Command. I hereby appeal for calm, for everyone to go about their lawful duty and other responsibilities peacefully.

“The police deployment at the Lagos State House of Assembly has been reinforced and fortified with more Mobile Police Force (PMF) personnel sent. Counter-terrorism units are equally being increased and sent there.

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“Special protection units are equally attached there. The Bomb Squad and the Conventional Police Team and Detectives were increased and sent to the State House of Assembly to fortify the security. We also stationed Armoured Personnel Carrier (APC) and other vehicular patrol teams to prevent any untoward incidents.

“Whatsoever has been done in the Lagos State House of Assembly today, the Lagos State Police Command is not in the know. Police do not have responsibility in the hallowed chamber of the House of Assembly. We are limited to providing adequate security coverage for the House of Assembly and not to be involved in any other matters of politics inside the premises, except if there is complaint that borders on crimes and safety.

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“The Lagos State Police Command will continue to be neutral and not to get involved in politics at whatever level. Security situation in the House of Assembly is firmly under control and normalcy has been fully restored.

“Lagosians are enjoined to go about their lawful businesses and other responsibilities without fear as the police are completely resolved to maintain law and order throughout the state, to engender public safety, public security,” he added.

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Why we withdraw Police escorts to VIPs top Politicians – CP opens up

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Why we withdraw Police escorts to VIPs top Politicians – CP opens up

The Commissioner of Police for Lagos State, Moshood Jimoh, has stated that the withdrawal of police officers attached to eminent personalities is in the public interest.

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He made this known while briefing journalists on Thursday at the command headquarters in Ikeja.

According to him, the ongoing audit of police personnel in Lagos aims to enhance public safety and is not influenced by any other considerations.

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“Periodic audits of police personnel attached to VIPs and groups are a statutory police procedure, not limited to the Lagos State Police Command alone,” he said.

He explained that the exercise ensures accountability for police officers, their firearms, and other crime-fighting equipment under their possession.

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Additionally, it guarantees that officers remain at their designated duty posts and that their firearms and equipment are not misused.

“As we speak, other police commands across the country are conducting similar audits without any issues,” he added.

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The exercise also helps the command identify officers posted without approval or engaged in unauthorised duties so they can be withdrawn.

“Those with invalid approvals or on illegal duties will be redeployed to police posts, stations, divisions, and area commands to strengthen security across Lagos,” he said.

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Jimoh emphasised that Lagos, with over 20 million residents, has fewer than 18,000 police officers and urgently needs more personnel at strategic locations.

“The command requires more officers at police stations and divisions to ensure the safety and protection of lives and property in the state,” he noted.

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He confirmed that the audit of officers attached to Ms Mojisola Meranda, had been completed, and her four armed personnel had been reinstated.

“The ongoing audit has been in progress for several days, with prominent individuals complying. It is not targeted at any specific person or group,” he clarified.

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He urged those with no valid approval or unauthorised police attachments to revalidate their status or apply afresh to the Inspector-General of Police.

“For those still undergoing the audit, the outcome will determine the next steps regarding their police protection,” Jimoh stated.

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He warned that police officers attached to individuals without valid approval would be withdrawn across the state.

The Special Protection Units (SPU) at Force Headquarters, he added, have been mandated to provide security coverage for Nigerians requiring police protection.

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“Henceforth, all police personnel deployments for guard duties and personal protection will be centrally managed at the Force Headquarters,” he explained.

He noted that some approvals for police attachments in Lagos could not be traced or verified during the audit.

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However, affected individuals could apply to the Inspector-General of Police for urgent consideration in line with police regulations.

Jimoh also confirmed that Mr Mudashiru Obasa had recently applied for police protection due to threats against his life and family, which was approved.

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He stated that the command was unaware of how or when the Speaker’s office at the Lagos State House of Assembly was broken into.

“The command remains neutral in the matter and is committed to ensuring law, order, and public safety throughout Lagos,” he assured.

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He appealed for calm, urging residents to continue their lawful activities peacefully.

“The police presence at the Lagos State House of Assembly has been reinforced with additional Mobile Force Units, Counter-Terrorism Units, and Special Protection Units,” he revealed.

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Other reinforcements include Bomb Squads, conventional police teams, detectives, Armoured Personnel Carriers, and patrol teams to prevent any security breaches.

He clarified that the police are responsible for security outside the Assembly premises and do not interfere in political matters unless criminal activities are reported.

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“The command will remain neutral and will not be involved in politics. Security at the State House of Assembly is under control, and normalcy has been restored,” he said.

Jimoh urged Lagos residents to continue their daily activities without fear, as the police are committed to maintaining law and order across the state. (NAN)

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