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My wife might kill me – Husband cries out for help

 

A retired civil servant, Mr Olabamiji Ogundepo, has prayed a Mapo Grade A Customary Court in Ibadan to dissolve his 11-year-old marriage with his estranged wife, Aminat, on grounds of her persistent fighting and intolerable ineptitudes.

Ogundepo noted, with sadness, that his wife’s frequent trouble making with not only him but also, with neighbours in their rented apartment had caused their premature expulsion before they eventually built their own house.

“For instance, my lord, Aminat threatened to beat up our landlord, as a result of which he forcefully ejected us, fearing that my wife might make good her threat.

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“This is in addition to her constant fighting with me and other people.

“I just don’t know why Aminat gets angry over little and irrelevant things. In fact, she is too intolerable and she often uses sticks and broken bottles to threaten me.

“Worst still, she comes home late in the night and most of the time, she will refuse to give our little children food.

“As if these were not enough, Aminat brought a pot often used by Osun traditional worshipers into my home and I told her to take it out, but she disobeyed my instruction,” Ogundepo stated.

However, Aminat, who is a hair dresser, stated in her testimony that she became frustrated as a result of constant starvation.

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“My lord, Ogundepo usually gives the three children and I just N500 weekly feeding allowance and he expects us to be okay.

“I only got married to him when I lost my first husband.

“Ogundepo could go if he wishes but please, tell him that he must be responsible for our children’s upkeep,” Aminat told the court.

In his judgment, the court’s President, Mrs S.M. Akintayo, held that there was nothing to be dissolved between Ogundepo and Aminat, as there was no valid customary marriage between them in the first instance.

Akintayo said that the duo had testified that there was no payment of bride price and that they were merely living together as husband and wife after wooing each other in 2014.

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He cited various sections of the law to support her judgment.

Akintayo said that a customary marriage recognised by the Nigerian law required payment of bride price to the parents or guardians of the bride, presentation of gift items, consent of the parents or guardians and formal giving away of the bride.

She, however, granted the order restraining the respondent from further threatening, harassing, disturbing and interfering with the private life of the petitioner henceforth. (NAN)

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Tinubu decided not to make me Minister – El-Rufai reveals private discussion with the President

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Tinubu decided not to make me Minister – El-Rufai reveals private discussion with the President

A former governor of Kaduna State, Mallam El-Rufai, has claimed that President Bola Tinubu did not want him in his cabinet.

According to him, the National Assembly did not reject him because of a security report from the Department of State Services, DSS.

Speaking on Arise TV on Monday night, El-Rufai said, “Forget what you read. The National Assembly did not reject me. President Bola Tinubu changed his mind about working with me.

“The security thing was a good excuse they used.

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“Since then, has anyone released that report telling us the security issue?

“Look, I was minister 20 years ago. I don’t need to be in politics. I have a private life.

“Tinubu appealed to me and begged me. He threw me a challenge that no president has sorted out electricity problems. He said you and I can do it. it was the challenge that made me accept it.

“I had the opportunity to serve my country. The person that gave me took it back and that is not a problem.”

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Housing Minister threatens to decamp from APC over Leadership issue

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Housing Minister threatens to decamp from APC over Leadership issue

The Minister of Housing and Urban Development, Yusuf Abdullahi Ata, says he will resign if the current APC state chairman, Abdullahi Abbas, is re-elected.

Ata made this statement at a press conference in Kano on Monday. He reaffirmed his position, stating he would resign from both his ministerial role and the party.

He said, “This is my position to this day. We oppose the reinstatement of the current APC leadership in Kano, given what happened in the last election.

“We will not accept this situation again. If the leadership remains, I will resign from my ministerial post and leave APC.

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Ata emphasised his strong moral values and respect for elders, noting, “We will not compromise our values.”

He expressed concerns over the party leadership’s statements, which he believed contributed to the party’s failure in 2023.

“We must engage individuals of integrity to gain the trust of Kano citizens,” Ata stressed.

He said, “Votes and money do not grant power; only God bestows authority.”

Ata urged politicians from all parties to promote peace, respect each other, and follow the rules. (NAN)

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Tinubu seeks security agencies’ synergy for effective crime-fighting at Senior Police Officers’ Conference

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Tinubu seeks security agencies’ synergy for effective crime-fighting at Senior Police Officers’ Conference

President Bola Tinubu has sought more synergy among security agencies in the country to combat crimes more effectively.

Tinubu, represented by Vice President Kashim Shettima, said this at the opening ceremony of the 2025 Conference and Retreat for Senior Police Officers, held in Abeokuta on Monday.

The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports the programme is themed “Improving Nigeria’s Internal Security and Economic Prosperity Through Inclusive Policing”.

The president noted that synergy among all security agencies remained vital to eliminating banditry, kidnapping, armed robbery, and other forms of criminality.

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He stated that internal security was fundamental to creating an environment where businesses and investment flourish.

He added that his administration had prioritised security agencies under operational capability, ensuring they were well-equipped to confront emergencies and effectively combat crime.

The president stressed that the conference’s theme aligned seamlessly with his administration’s core objectives.

“We are committed to fostering economic growth by leveraging the vast potentials of our human and natural resources.

“However, this vision is unattainable without a stable internal security landscape from states under collaboration.

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“I reaffirmed our administration’s commitment to enhancing the institutional capacity of the Nigeria Police Force (NPF), ensuring it is more effective and well-positioned to fulfill its constitutional mandates,” he said.

Tinubu noted that the present administration was working to bridge existing security infrastructure and equipment gaps through comprehensive and sustainable programmes.

“The programmes include renovating police barracks, including mobility and upgrading essential combats and protective gears.

“These ongoing efforts, complemented by efforts of state governments, will certainly inspire confidence and reposition the Nigeria Police Force,” he said.

The president mentioned the implementation of the new minimum wage among many others as steps taken to enhance the welfare of Nigerian workers, including police personnel.

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“We will continue to collaborate with police leadership to provide financial incentives to motivate officers and all security personnel to perform at their highest level,” he said.

Tinubu explained that his administration remained committed to supporting NPF in meeting up with its crucial role of keeping Nigeria safe and united.

In his remarks, the Inspector-General of Police (I-G), Kayode Egbetokun, noted the gathering served as a crucial platform for assessing the police administrative and operational strategies.

Egbetokun explained that it was also an avenue to exchange insights and realign policing objectives with the nation’s evolving global security landscape.

“Building on the successes of previous conferences, we have undertaken major reforms in investigative procedures, prioritising forensic analysis, digital case management, and improved judicial collaboration.

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“The reorganisation of the Force Criminal Investigation Department (FCID) and other specialised units has been a priority, ensuring that our detectives operate in line with globally accepted best practices.

“Moving forward, all commands and formations have been mandated to implement a comprehensive action plan aimed at reducing crime rates by 50 per cent in 2025,” he said.

Gov. Dapo Abiodun of Ogun commended the leadership of NPF for its commitment to protecting the lives and property of Nigerians.

Abiodun reaffirmed that his administration would continue to assist all security agencies in safeguarding a peaceful state. (NAN)

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